The Lover's Vault

Over the years, I've gathered the teachings and tools that most awaken love's natural vitality.

In the Lover's Vault, you'll find articles, videos, and meditations to help you reconnect with yourself and your partner, one moment of awareness at a time.

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What Kind Of

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The Biggest Mistake Couples Make In The Bedroom

The 3 Pillars You Need To Reignite Passion In Your Relationship

Stop Letting Relationship Myths Ruin Your Relationship

If You're A Windlover, You Might Talk Yourself Out Of Lovemaking

Why You Don't Feel Like You Deserve Pleasure

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Take Amara Charle's Lover's Type Quiz to uncover your natural patterns and learn how they shape intimacy, passion, and communication.

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In Amara's book, you'll learn:

Common mistakes people make and how to effectively communicate and create agreements that will uplift your relationships

Common misunderstandings of boundaries vs. agreements and how to establish both to empower you, your sexual partner and your relationships so that you can fulfil sexual desires in a safe and mutually respectful place

How to honor your feelings through the agreement making process so that it doesn't cloud the true outcome you desire

How to identify what you desire that will fulfil you sexually and tactics for communicating that to your partner

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Are You Ready To Stop Outsourcing Your Happiness And Reignite Passion?

Are You Ready To Stop Outsourcing Your Happiness And Reignite Passion?

Do you ever find yourself waiting for your partner to make the first move? To bring the spark back? To make you feel alive again? ...more

Amara Blog Posts

September 10, 20252 min read

From Limbo To Love. 5 steps to get your groove back!

From Limbo To Love. 5 steps to get your groove back!

5 steps to get your groove back! 1. Stop Making "Fine" Your Default Setting 2. Quit playing charades ...more

Amara Blog Posts

September 08, 20252 min read

How To Insource Your Aliveness Instead Of Outsourcing Your Happiness.

How To Insource Your Aliveness Instead Of Outsourcing Your Happiness.

When things feel dead at home, it's tempting to look elsewhere for stimulation or affection. Maybe it's excessive work, maybe it's emotional affairs, maybe it's just endless scrolling for validation. ...more

Amara Blog Posts

September 04, 20251 min read

Ready To Stop Waiting And Start Living?

Ready To Stop Waiting And Start Living?

They were two people sharing a house but living separate lives. And the kicker? They were totally successful in terms of goals and careers, but with retirement looming, instead of looking forward, as ... ...more

Amara Blog Posts

September 04, 20252 min read

Are you stuck waiting for your partner to make the first move?

Are you stuck waiting for your partner to make the first move?

Real talk for a sec. You know that thing where you're sitting there, waiting for your partner to: • Plan the romantic date • Initiate sex • Say the right thing • Make you feel... something? Yeah. That... ...more

Amara Blog Posts

September 04, 20252 min read

From Marriage Limbo to Clarity, Love and Respect

From Marriage Limbo to Clarity, Love and Respect

The other day, a client told me they were living like a ghost in their own marriage. "I get up, make the coffee, pack the lunch, wave goodbye, and by the time they come home, they're basically a zombi... ...more

Amara Blog Posts

September 04, 20252 min read

The Strange Price of Keeping The Peace (And Losing Yourself)

The Strange Price of Keeping The Peace (And Losing Yourself)

The other day, I bought this wild, spiky-looking houseplant. A week later, the plant looked droopy, and honestly, I did too. Turns out, what I really wanted wasn’t a new plant. ...more

Amara Blog Posts

September 04, 20252 min read

Is Emotional Scarcity Ruining Your Relationship?

Is Emotional Scarcity Ruining Your Relationship?

Ever find yourself sitting in silence with someone you love—not because there’s a fight or anything, but because it feels like there’s nothing left to say? ...more

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September 04, 20252 min read

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