



"One of the best books I have ever read on relationships. It is simple, straight forward, and really helps couples figure what they want in their sex life. I cannot say that I have found anything else like it in the realm of self-help books. I feel it is a must read for anyone wanting to figure out and navigate their sex life!"
Laurie Handless - Sexpert, Author, Film Producer & Talk Show Host
Revealing these once-secret teachings for the first time, initiated Quodoushka instructor Amara Charles explains the physical, energetic, and sexual qualities of the nine male and female genital anatomy types - such as Coyote Man or Buffalo Woman - and how to identify and best please each type as well as take pride in your own unique anatomy.
Describing the nine variations of orgasmic expression - from avalanche to forest fire - she provides exercises for greater sexual pleasure and increased orgasmic intensity, including the Firebreath exercise, a method for reaching a full-body orgasm through breathwork.
Covering role playing and sexual energetic work with the chakras and the light body as well as ceremonies to bring the sacred back into your lovemaking, the practice of Quodoushka reveals how we can - through pleasure - become more sensitive, creative lovers.
With empowered Sexual Agreements in place, who knows how many relationships could be lifted to the next level of happiness, pleasure and compassion. In my book Sexual Agreements you will learn:
Common mistakes people make and how to effectively communicate and create agreements that will uplift your relationships
Common misunderstandings of boundaries vs. agreements and how to establish both to empower you, your partner and your relationships so that you can fulfil sexual desires in a safe and mutually respectful place
How to honor your feelings through the agreement making process so that it doesn't cloud the true outcome you desire
How to identify what you desire that will fulfil you sexually and tactics for communicating that to your partner


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