The Beauty of Sex
Being human has its pleasure perks and sex is one of them. It’s a natural part of our desires – a natural part of our way of being. Without sex our species could not survive, so why does our culture portray sex as wrong, when in actuality we are hardwired to have sex and enjoy it?
“Quehestemehah” You Dance in My Heart
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In beauty,
Amara Charles
Trusted Sex and Intimacy Advisor to Thousands
Do you want to learn more about the beauty of sex?
Read my book The Sexual Practice of Quodoushka by Amara Charles
Spiritual Flirting
Imagine a world where we can accept being appreciated as beautiful beings, for our sexual grace and total presence with another human being. Dare to exhibit your beauty and play with spiritual flirting to command an encounter with anyone you’d like.
“Quehestemehah” You Dance in My Heart
I love hearing from you. Please post comments and let me know what you think.
In beauty,
Amara Charles
Trusted Sex and Intimacy Advisor to Thousands
6 Ways to Flirt Your Way Out of Loneliness
Just the other day I spoke with a woman who had an awful first date with a man she met on a dating site. She grumbled about several deal breakers including he was stuck in the past and was oblivious to anything she had to say. She sounded lonely, defeated and ready to quit the whole online dating thing. So I said, listen, ‘you’re a fantastic woman, you’re bright successful and attractive, so how would you like to take those skills of yours and use them the next time you date? Of course she said yes, and here’s what I told her to do.
Randomly Flirt
Yes, randomly BEFORE you go on any dates. The first assignment was to dress lovely and wander about smiling generously everywhere she went seeking only to have brief, pleasant conversations with anyone she met. I recommended she practice flirting like this in safe public places she might visit during her daily routines. “Make it a mission’ I said, ‘Your only agenda is to enjoy being out and about. You should have no attachment whatsoever and no goal. You’re just getting warmed up.
Talk About Now
You said one of the things that turned you off was the way this man went on and on about his past. What could be more dull? So, in your conversations, avoid talking about the past at all, especially your baggage. Hunt for things that are going on in your life right now and speak enthusiastically about what you are doing. If he starts to pull back into his past, smile and redirect the conversation.
7 Ways to Increase your Sexy Yin Essence
When was the last time you flirted? Do you remember how you felt? With the #metoo movement empowering women to speak up and confront abusive behavior, I believe this is the perfect time to strengthen rather than hide our Sexy Yin Essence. Flirting can be a subtle and wonderful art, that is not only fun to do, but is a great way to quickly gain energy. There’s something about witty banter with someone in passing that makes you feel alive and desirable. For a second your responsibilities seem lighter, and you can awaken that part deep within you that longs for more pleasure and playfulness.
Flirting is not something you need to do all the time! It can be practiced whenever you feel like it, and whenever you need a boost. Here are just a few of the ways flirting can become not only a spiritual adventure but also a way to have fun and increase your Sexy Yin Essence.