Years ago a woman came on a retreat who I have known for many years. She had a small business, and she always struggled and was on the verge of bankruptcy. It was a small miracle that her boyfriend gave her the money to go to the retreat as she had wanted to go for years but didn’t have the funds.
One of her primary intentions on the retreat was to become prosperous and abundant. She was in her 40s and had never experienced that before. At one of the sacred sites, she got an epiphany. When it came to making decisions, she always struggled with “making the right decision.” When confronted with a decision that had to be made, she was clouded, unfocused and it even brought up anxiety because she knew how important it was to “make the right decision.”
These sacred sites are shamanic and they will sometimes create situations that show us what is happening in our lives. So she was in a sacred site where the trails were really obvious, and then suddenly they became nonexistent, and she was lost. She ended up in
Entering the shamanic realms is a stepping into the timeless harmony of infinity where we can listen and feel our oneness with Creation. When we stop the world we know another world appears. If you have ever become quiet enough to have a direct communion with a tree, a rock or a stream of water, you know that there is another language that arises when we stop the world we know. We can feel the subtle vibrations of nature, where a tree has quite a different ‘voice’ than the wind. This is the place where magical transformation happens, but not for the reasons we think.
Have you ever felt the power and the vibration of a physical place? A power that left you feeling energized, awakened, vitalized or ready for a big life change? What you experienced was a sacred site – a power place that holds specific frequencies and vibrations. These wonderful sites can amplify and accelerate transformation, growth, the power of healing, creativity, purification and much, much more.
When was the last time you flirted? Do you remember how you felt? With the #metoo movement empowering women to speak up and confront abusive behavior, I believe this is the perfect time to strengthen rather than hide our Sexy Yin Essence. Flirting can be a subtle and wonderful art, that is not only fun to do, but is a great way to quickly gain energy. There’s something about witty banter with someone in passing that makes you feel alive and desirable. For a second your responsibilities seem lighter, and you can awaken that part deep within you that longs for more pleasure and playfulness.
Flirting is not something you need to do all the time! It can be practiced whenever you feel like it, and whenever you need a boost. Here are just a few of the ways flirting can become not only a spiritual adventure but also a way to have fun and increase your Sexy Yin Essence.
Are we too safe and too politically correct in 2018? Are we so afraid of engaging with others that we deny the desires of our feminine and masculine energies? If we want our relationships to last, we must embrace the human desire for chasing the next thrill.
Some couples bring in toys or props, role-play, or even swing, but the most mainstream and safe way to liven things up in the bedroom is to flirt. Innocent flirting is nothing to be ashamed of when the intent is to keep things fun, lighthearted and respectful. Smile back at that man who’s clearly enamored with your beauty, and both of you get an ego boost. When you pass by a married woman with amazing legs, tell her! I bet you she’ll head home with a little extra pep in her step her husband won’t even know what hit him.