January 10, 2013

Just started reading your Quodoushka book

submitted by Amara Charles Back
Quodoushka

Subject: Re: just started reading your Quodoushka book
On Jan 9, 2013, at 10:07 PM, Jim Slavsky wrote:

Amara,

I just started the read, and I am already thankful.  I too was pretty much left in limbo regarding sexual relations when I was growing up.  I got the Catholic doctrine on the matter:  don’t do it…you’ll get someone pregnant…it’s a sin to even think about it…oh, and it is also a sin to explore your own body through masturbation.  No one was there to guide me through the emotional or physical reactions as I experimented on my own and occasionally with a partner.  Emotional and physical sexual development for me was done in the dark with the twisted notion that your sex partner had to be someone you intended to marry.  Some sort of mentoring process would have been very beneficial.  Actually, I am sure it would still be beneficial since I feel as though I have just barely scratched the surface of my sexual potential.  I guess that is why I searched and found Quodoushka.

The first chapter of your book also made me keenly aware of the source of the feelings I have started having of being an insufficient parent for my young teenage children.  I would really like to give my kids some guidance other than the rhetoric and limbo I was given at that age, but I haven’t known how to even begin.  At the same time I am also realizing from your text that I have already started my children on a solid path through my introducing them to nature and showing them the value of being observant and a good steward.

I am looking forward to learning much more about my sexual and parental potentials.

Thank you,
–jim

Hi Jim,
Thank you very much for sharing this with me.
What you say is so touching, and well written and I think a lot of people would relate to what you are saying.
I meet so may people who like you who not only survive a poor introduction to their sexuality,
they manage to do much better with their own children.
Bravo on you! Our children need parents who accept their sexuality as natural and good. It all begins with us.

In beauty
Amara

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To parents of infants and toddlers, their children’s sexual development may seem a long way off. But actually, sexual development begins in a child’s very first years. Infants, toddlers, preschoolers, and young school-aged kids develop an emotional and physical foundation for sexuality in many subtle ways as they grow.

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Jarrod Craig says

To parents of infants and toddlers, their children’s sexual development may seem a long way off. But actually, sexual development begins in a child’s very first years. Infants, toddlers, preschoolers, and young school-aged kids develop an emotional and physical foundation for sexuality in many subtle ways as they grow.

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