May 16, 2015

Does Sexual Magic Exist?

submitted by Amara Charles Back

Of course it does.

If you consider what we go through, all the emotional obstacles, not to mention time constraints, kids and all those other reasonable sounding excuses – like I don’t have the right partner – it’s remarkable that we ever let ourselves surrender into the deeply nourishing bliss of ecstasy. We all know there’s magic here.

Here’s what sexual magic is not.

It’s not having sex to get something. It’s not using sexual energy to magically produce more money, more sex or a big new house. The instant you approach sex like this, magic runs the other way. Sexual magic is nothing without love.

Loving sexual union is pure magic, and yes, things may seem to happen magically when we spill ourselves into each other, diving fully into our natural selves. Our original nature knows where we come from, and yes, it’s a magical experience to remember this feeling flowing through our bodies.

But magic is finicky. It’s repelled by arrogance and greed of any kind.

The definition of magic I like is : seeing the direction change wants to take, and aligning so intimately with the movement of change, it seems you are directing what appears.

This is sexual magic . It is not about making things happen.

Sexual magic is not about learning special sexual techniques or tricks. (although there are some remarkable practices you can do to heighten your awareness and increase your capacity for pleasure) These are the things we do in Quodushka Three.

Why do we want this Quodoushka Three to happen in July?

Because the exquisite love that will arise in the souls of all who are present will bestow countless blessings, not only for the couples who share these profound practices; the ripple of benevolence will shower over the land, touching the hearts of many who are in need of such hope and beauty.

The Quodoushka Three is a ceremony of tender love that cannot be contained by the body alone. It’s a journey to discover the kind of selfless love that is really a service of manifestation stirred by passion moving through and beyond the body. It’s a kind of ‘magic’ that teaches us to express our love so we can share these blessings.

It’s for those who are called to reach deeply into their hearts to find the boundless energy to give generously for the benefit others.

Does this seem too grand an ideal for you?

The real ‘magic’ of Quodoushka is rooted in Thunderstrike’s vision that anyone with a sincere heart, and the will to taste the darkness of their limitations can, and will overcome their personal blocks to pleasure. The is no secret to this. It requires only the desire to give all the tenderness, kindness and body opening love you can. There is only victory in this ceremony.

The techniques presented in Quodoushka Three are designed to let our blocks to pleasure come forth the way they do, and then be guided to experience the power of saying ‘yes!’ to the freedom you deserve.

It’s really about piercing through the illusionary veils of limitation that keep you playing it small and safe, rarely daring to surrender fully into deep body love. Is this scary? Of course it is. If it wasn’t scary to let go in selfless bliss we would do it all the time.

That’s why the Quodoushka Three is a ceremony. We do this journey of love, moving through the doorways to ecstasy together so we can help and inspire one another to dare feel the love we are designed to feel. Together, in ceremony, it’s our intent that creates the loving cocoon that allows us to soar safely into the heavenly realms.

Once you say yes to this experience, you may find it strums a chord of memory. You may remember times where it was wildly easy and profound to allow such pleasure be good. You may find you have joined kindred spirits who wish to soar as you do.

In my view, we should not leave the body or this world without knowing, feeling, tasting and sharing such beauty. For me, giving and receiving this kind of love, even once in a lifetime, leaves an indelible mark of beauty on the soul.

I am teaching a Quodoushka Three July 16-18 in Phoenix. Go  to the workshop page on my site to learn more.

In beauty Amara Charles

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mary lois sennewald says

What a lovely explanation. Best wishes for your magical Q.

Amara says

Thank You Mary. It’s good to hear from you. I hope you are happy and you Amara

Martilias Porreca says

Amara, I hear your desire to teach this Q3, however more than that I hear your desire to invite those who have not passed through this mountain pass to see a new valley, a new way of perceiving and being, to do so.
There are many things I could say about the Q3s of my personal experience – one is – I have gone each time with an open heart, with a spirit of awakeness and awareness and journeyed through the mountain pass to a heretofor not seen perspective.
Amara, I hope that there are enough replys and then some so this Q3 in July lives and breaths. Peace, Joy and Love, Martilias

Amara says

Dear Martilias
What a beautiful note. I feel your heart my friend. Thank you. Xoxo Amara


I am teaching a Q3 in 2017 early November. In Hawaii. Please see for details. And yes, you must do Q1 and Q2 in order to come to Q3! That’s all happening this year in Hawaii’ ps. I won’t be doing this again for a while, so if you’re curious, come this year! In beauty, Amara

Gustavo de la Torre says

Since Ieva and I separated officially last month I am without a partner to attend. I do have a new lover that could come with me but if that is not a possibility can I come alone. I figure it does not hurt to ask:)

Gustavo de la Torre says

Since Ieva and I separated officially last month I am without a partner to attend. I do have a new lover that could come with me but if that is not a possibility can I come alone. I figure it does not hurt to ask:) Love you Amara ????????

Gustavo de la Torre says

My emoji did not showed up. A word to the wise;)